Practice Area

Child Custody and Relocation

Moving Forward While Keeping Children's Interests First

Navigating custody implications when a parent needs to move.

Overview

Understanding Child Custody and Relocation

Relocation cases arise when a custodial parent wishes to move a significant distance away — typically out of the county, out of state, or across the country — and that move would substantially affect the other parent's ability to exercise their parenting time. These are among the most difficult cases in family law because they involve a direct tension between a parent's right to move for legitimate reasons (a new job, proximity to family support, a new relationship) and the child's right to maintain a meaningful relationship with both parents.

Most states require a parent to provide formal notice of an intended relocation, typically 30 to 90 days in advance. Some states require court permission before a move can occur, while others allow the move unless the non-relocating parent files an objection. The specific rules in your jurisdiction significantly affect your rights and obligations. Failing to follow proper procedures can result in serious consequences, including reversal of the move and potential changes to the custody arrangement.

Courts evaluating relocation requests consider a range of factors, including the reasons for the proposed move, the quality of the child's relationship with each parent, the impact on the child's education, social life, and community ties, whether a realistic alternative parenting schedule can preserve the non-relocating parent's relationship with the child, and the child's own preferences in age-appropriate cases. The burden of proof typically falls on the parent seeking to relocate, though this varies by state.

Whether you are the parent seeking to move or the parent opposing a relocation, these cases demand sophisticated legal strategy. For the relocating parent, success requires demonstrating a legitimate, good-faith reason for the move and proposing a realistic plan to preserve the other parent's relationship with the child. For the opposing parent, it requires showing that the move would be detrimental to the child and that the current arrangement better serves the child's interests. We represent parents on both sides of relocation disputes with the same commitment to achieving the best outcome for the children involved.

Key Considerations

What You Need to Know

Notice Requirements

Most states require formal written notice to the other parent before a relocation can occur. This notice must typically include the intended destination, the reasons for the move, a proposed revised parenting schedule, and the date of the intended move. Failure to provide proper notice can result in the court denying the relocation or imposing other sanctions. We ensure all notice requirements are met and timely.

Legitimate vs. Bad-Faith Reasons for Relocation

Courts distinguish between moves motivated by legitimate reasons — such as career advancement, educational opportunities, or proximity to family support — and moves that appear designed to interfere with the other parent's relationship with the child. A relocating parent must demonstrate that the move is in good faith and not primarily intended to limit the other parent's contact.

Revised Parenting Schedules After Relocation

When a relocation is approved, the existing parenting plan must be substantially revised to account for the increased distance. This typically involves longer blocks of time during school breaks and summer vacation for the non-relocating parent, provisions for video communication, and clear transportation and cost-sharing arrangements for travel between homes.

Impact on Children's Stability

Courts pay close attention to how a move will affect a child's school performance, friendships, extracurricular activities, and overall sense of community. A relocating parent should be prepared to show that the move will improve the child's overall quality of life and that the destination offers comparable or superior educational and social opportunities.

Our Process

What to Expect

We guide you through every step with clarity and care.

1

Consultation and Strategy

Whether you are seeking to relocate or opposing a move, we begin by understanding your situation and developing a clear legal strategy aligned with your children's best interests.

2

Notice and Response

We draft or respond to the required relocation notice, ensuring all procedural requirements are met and your position is clearly articulated.

3

Evidence Development

We gather evidence supporting your position, including documentation of employment opportunities, the quality of schools and communities at the destination, and the feasibility of alternative parenting arrangements.

4

Negotiation

When possible, we negotiate a resolution that allows the move while preserving the non-relocating parent's meaningful relationship with the child.

5

Court Hearing

If the parties cannot agree, we present a comprehensive case to the court, including expert testimony when appropriate, to argue for the outcome that best serves the child's interests.

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

How far can I move before it is considered a relocation?

The threshold varies by state. Some states define relocation as any move more than 50 miles from the current residence, while others set the bar at 100 miles or at any move that crosses state lines. Some states focus on whether the move would substantially impact the existing parenting schedule rather than on a specific distance. We can advise you on the specific rules in your jurisdiction.

Can the other parent stop me from moving?

The other parent can file an objection to your proposed relocation, which triggers a court hearing. The court will then weigh the factors for and against the move and determine whether it is in the child's best interest. The other parent cannot unilaterally prevent the move, but they can prevent you from taking the child if the court denies the relocation request. You yourself may move, but you cannot necessarily bring your child without court approval.

What if I need to relocate for a job?

A legitimate job opportunity is one of the most common and strongest reasons for relocation. Courts generally recognize that a parent's improved financial situation benefits the child. However, you will still need to demonstrate that the move is in the child's best interests overall and propose a realistic plan for the other parent to maintain a meaningful relationship with the child.

Who pays for travel when one parent relocates?

Transportation costs are typically addressed in the revised parenting plan. Courts often allocate costs based on which parent chose to relocate and the parties' relative financial resources. Common arrangements include the relocating parent bearing a larger share of transportation costs, splitting costs equally, or alternating who pays for each trip. We negotiate for fair cost-sharing as part of the relocation plan.

Can I relocate if I have joint custody?

Having joint custody generally makes relocation more complicated because the court must consider the impact on both parents' ability to exercise their custodial time. However, joint custody does not automatically prevent relocation. The court will evaluate whether a modified parenting schedule can preserve both parents' meaningful involvement in the child's life despite the distance.

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